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Kay Ingamells

Narrative Therapy & Family Therapy Since 1994

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What is Narrative Therapy?

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How I Work

 

In our sessions you will move beyond problems to create inspiring new  possibilities. Drawing upon your strengths, wisdom and values, and bring them to bear on whatever difficulties you are experiencing.

I have 30 years experience as a counsellor and family therapist with all sorts of issues.
I work with adults, children, adolescents/teenagers/young people, and families.

My approach is optimistic and solution-focused!

I am experienced with:
Anxiety, Panic attacks, Family therapy, Relationship issues, Couples therapy
Childhood problems including separation anxiety, anxiety, fears, school issues, bullying, eating disorders, behavioural problems, parenting issues, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), stealing, blended family issues, sibling issues etc.
Adolescent problems, Identity issues. Grief and loss, Gender and sexuality issues, Career and workplace issues, Parenting, Eating disorders

I am a full member of the New Zealand Association of Counsellors (NZAC) . I am a trained family therapist, child therapist and Journey Practitioner.

I can provide free sessions for:

  • Young people Age 5-24,  through Gumboot Friday, and for some young people in the Waitemata DHB area.
  • Via your employer if they work with Clearhead, Ignite, or Telus
  • Unimed clients.
  • Victims of Crime through Victim Support
Kay Ingamells - Narrative Counsellor

How I work

 

I see problems as stories. 'Problem stories’ often become so overwhelming that they consume us, take over our hearts and minds,  and we find it almost impossible to separate ourselves from them. This is where narrative therapy comes in.  I bring questions which disrupt problem stories and help you to access your own wisdom and expertise so that you can disentangle yourself from problems and see yourself more clearly.

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What is Narrative Therapy?

Narrative therapy is a very well-known therapy or counselling approach.Narrative therapy is different because it doesn't identify the person with the problem in the way that many approaches do. If you have ever been to see a health professional and felt as if they talked to you as if you were the problem, you will know what I mean.

Narrative therapy is well known for the phrase: the person is not the problem, the problem is the problem.

This way of thinking leads to a different kind of therapy conversation. A narrative therapist  look for how you have and can bring your knowledge, abilities and wisdom to bear in dealing with the problem. Narrative conversations are creative and fascinating. You willmake new discoveries and come to see yourself and the problem with new eyes.

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What is Journey Therapy?

Problems often show up in the body in some way shape or form. Journey therapy as a way of restorying problems in the body. It is useful for problems that are physical and emotional.

Most psychologists treat the mind as disembodied, a phenomenon with little or no connection to the physical body. Conversely, physicians treat the body with no regard to the mind or the emotions. But the body and mind are not separate, and we cannot treat one without the other. Dr. Candace Pert.

I trained over several years to become a journey practitioner by its originator,  Brandon Bays. You might like to read her best-selling book:

Bays, B. (2012) The Journey : a practical guide to healing your life. New York: Atria Books.You can buy the book through Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Journey-Practical-Healing-Setting-Yourself/dp/145166561X

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Reviews

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Rachel Cattanach 6 months ago
I came to see Kay with my 13 year old daughter, because of some issues we were having at home communicating with each other. She was nervous to come and see someone, Kay was great at making her feel comfortable straight away. After our session we were able to take some key take aways that we could implement straight away and it made me feel like I had control of a situation that was quite out of control Would recommend and use again.
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Chloe Dunne 6 months ago
I’ve had a few sessions with Kay and found this incredibly helpful. She's very empathetic and creates a supportive space where it’s easy to talk openly. She is also very perceptive and challenged my thinking in a really constructive and enlightening way. Her insights and guidance have been very valuable and have helped me make tangible differences in my life. Very grateful and would highly recommend!!
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J R 7 months ago
Kay has an amazing ability to find ways that work with your child to help them learn new skills in coping with life. Kay has a genuine interest in helping family work together to grow closer and have a better understanding about each other. Would definitely recommend Kay and her services
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Kirsten R 7 months ago
Finding Kay was a true blessing, She knew exactly how to interact with my 6 year old son to find out what issues were going on, great workshop ideas for us as parents to do at home with him, she is warm and welcoming and creates a safe space to visit. over the time spent my son overcame the issues we were facing and we noticed a real positive outcome. Thank you Kay will not hesitate to contact again should we ever need too X

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